My Son is Selling Drugs. What Can I Do?

my son is selling drugs

Knowing what your children are doing at all times is impossible, and if you suspect that your son is selling drugs, it can be a difficult reality to accept. Drug dealing is illegal and can put your son’s future opportunities at risk, whether he’s a teen, young adult, or grown man. 

While you can’t make decisions for your child, you can positively influence his choices. Confirming your suspicions can help you encourage him to change his behavior before it’s too late. Read on to discover specific signs to look for if you believe your son is dealing drugs.

How to Tell If Someone is Selling Drugs 

Knowing common signs to look out for if you suspect your son is selling drugs can help you provide a solution sooner; here are some red flags that may be cause for concern. 

Flashy Lifestyle, New Clothes, or Gadgets 

The sudden appearance of expensive electronic gadgets or new clothes you suspect your son wouldn’t usually be able to afford could be a sign that he is peddling drugs. 

Extensive Phone Use 

Spending extended periods of time on the phone and receiving a lot of texts or short phone calls could be cause for concern, and a sign your son may be selling drugs. 

Loss of Focus 

Losing interest in things he once enjoyed, but still having large portions of his time occupied. 

Don’t ignore your concerns if you have suspicions about your son’s sudden, odd, or drastic changes in behavior. Sitting down and talking to your son is a good first step to determining whether or not he’s dealing drugs. 

What to Do If Your Son is Selling Drugs 

Once you’ve noticed a combination of troubling red flags, you may wonder how to address the problem. Along with staging an intervention and seeking professional help, there are some measures you can take to tackle the issue before it escalates. 

Here are some tips to follow if your son is selling drugs:

  • Find out where he keeps his stash. Doing this will support your suspicions and claims when you decide to confront him. 
  • Control yourself, don’t react emotionally, and only confront your son once you’ve calmed down. 
  • Get ready to engage your son or stage an intervention.
  • Ask questions and be sure to listen in a nonjudgmental way to discover the root cause of the problem.
  • Set rules and strong guidelines. Let your son know the possible consequences of drug dealing and remind him that you want him to be safe. 
  • Seek professional help from addiction treatment experts.

Drug dealing can be indicative of a deeper emotional or behavioral problem. Getting your son professional help may be the answer if your child won’t heed your call to change. Your son might benefit from the exclusive gender-specific care we offer at PACE Recovery Center. Our mission is to provide our clients with a supportive environment where they can create their own identities and gain practical tools to make real-life changes. 

Find a Path To Recovery With PACE 

Finding out that your son is dealing drugs can be a hard pill to swallow. The good news is help is available. At PACE Recovery Center, we believe that treatment is feasible for everyone. 

Seeking treatment for addiction or mental health therapy can be challenging, but with PACE, you can intervene in a calm, thoughtful manner. Get in touch with us to learn about admission, the insurances we accept, and program availability.